{"id":89,"date":"2011-08-24T11:55:00","date_gmt":"2011-08-24T11:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lidaprypchan.org\/?p=89"},"modified":"2015-07-19T20:22:26","modified_gmt":"2015-07-19T20:22:26","slug":"states-of-affinity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lidaprypchan.org\/?p=89","title":{"rendered":"STATES OF AFFINITY"},"content":{"rendered":"
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By Lida Prypchan<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
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The attraction, union or closeness between individuals is ruled by circumstance but also by identification and antagonism. Affinity, either for a similar concept of life, for a shared ideology, for interests in common. \u00a0Antagonism, such as that observed between the man and woman who achieve perfect unity by complementing one another. \u00a0But individuals of the same sex also can be united by antagonism, an example of which is the relationship between a purely academic individual and a practical one, or between a man who, though wealthy, lacks ideas and one who lacks resources but not ideas.<\/span><\/div>\n
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This introduction leads me to the subject of habits, since antagonism and affinity have a lot to do with them. \u00a0So it is easy to see that a drinker can meet another and be friends with him by affinity, but in the end one cannot tell whether the friendship is due to friendship per se or to alcohol; alcohol, money and food make many friends by themselves, but they are friends of circumstance, because when these three factors disappear, so also do the friends.<\/span><\/div>\n
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The opposite of the preceding case would be the individual factors disappear, so also do the friends. \u00a0The opposite of the preceding case would be the individual who recognizes his excessive predilection for drinking and seeks out acquaintances that do not drink. \u00a0It can be inferred from these two situations, that the first individual abandons himself without precaution to his appetites, while the second cautiously channels them into other paths.<\/span><\/div>\n
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In this sense one should view youth as a stage which determines the formation of habits, particularly alcoholic ones, \u00a0since one unfortunate trait or bad habit is like a pig, which when young, does not make much trouble, but fully grown created havoc everywhere. \u00a0During adolescence it is common to allow oneself to be influenced by others (peer pressure), to question, to break with convention, as it is almost impossible to realize that one can be unconventional and very original without doing harm to oneself. \u00a0As a result it is a period of great confusion when one does not understand oneself but needs to be accepted by others. \u00a0This results in imitation, but not exactly of what is best.<\/span><\/div>\n
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Moreover, to imitate other people\u2019s habits believing them to be one\u2019s own is to live a dangerous lie, because the habits could well become one\u2019s own. \u00a0Becoming accustomed to what is inadequate is to fall into a spider\u2019s web, from which it is difficult to extricate oneself later on. \u00a0It is also hard to recognize what is going on\u2026 Changes occur constantly and with them new ways of focusing life, and although some individuals change more easily than others, there are some who never do, or if they do they don\u2019t appear to, and instead of living through this stage and passing on to the next, they remain stuck in the same one all their lives.<\/span><\/div>\n
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The question most frequently asked of the alcoholic by the curious is: \u201cWhy do you drink?\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n
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I believe that when you ask this question, you expect a confession from a man ruined by adverse circumstances, but what you receive on the contrary is a very pleasant and entertaining answer on how amusing one becomes after a few little drinks. \u00a0Let\u2019s examine the best answer, given me two years ago by Mr. C.<\/span><\/div>\n
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He told me: \u201cLook, I\u2019ve been drinking for years now. \u00a0I\u2019m a social alcoholic, that\u2019s to say I enjoy the alcoholic habit in company, although I have always been very careful. \u00a0But my wife considers me an alcoholic and not exactly anonymous. \u00a0Why do I drink? \u00a0That\u2019s easy. \u00a0For the same reasons that I drink anything; firstly for pleasure, next for pleasure and because it\u2019s a habit, and then for pleasure and because it\u2019s a habit and because you realize that you become married to alcohol which is an acceptable love but not very much respected, but with drink as your companion you can walk down the street with your head held high. \u00a0Sure, you\u2019ll find someone who will invent reasons for drinking, like a friend who says he does it because his mother didn\u2019t nurse him (as if mother\u2019s milk had alcohol in it!). \u00a0Someone else says it\u2019s because he\u2019s too shy, another because he\u2019s too forward and alcohol puts a bridle on him (especially when he drinks \u201cCaballito Frenao\u201d \u00b9), others because they\u2019re in love and don\u2019t know how to appease their passion, others because it\u2019s what the doctor ordered. \u00a0As far as I\u2019m concerned, that\u2019s a load of baloney.”<\/span><\/div>\n
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“You drink for pleasure, for pure enjoyment, because you feel happy and content and alive inside. Anyway, everything has to do with alcohol: \u00a0business, politics, art, sports (because they always go on a binge after a championship), even witchcraft is connected with alcohol, you go to a spiritualist session or to Maria Lionza\u2019s mountain\u00b2, and just see how they put away those big bottles of rum \u2013 you\u2019d think they\u2019d called up the Indian Guaicaipuro! \u00a0Give me a drink from just half of that bottle and I assure you the First Negro, and all his brothers too \u00b3, would be down in me! \u00a0Look, alcohol\u2019s mixed up in everything. \u00a0Why do you think this country is as it is? \u00a0Because all political meetings and all important decisions are settled with drinks, of course.”<\/span><\/div>\n
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“From birth to death alcohol goes with everything: when a baby is born you have to celebrate his first tinkle, when your neighbor dies, as soon as you get through with your sobbing \u2013 let the party begin! \u00a0Birthdays, baptisms, weddings (you have to be crazy or drunk to get married), silver weddings, golden weddings, copper weddings, Mother\u2019s Day, Student\u2019s Day, Father\u2019s Day, Youth Day, Worker\u2019s Day, the five hundredth anniversary of the town where you were born, Doctor\u2019s Day, Nurse\u2019s Day, Lawyer\u2019s Day, Public Accountant\u2019s Day, Social Worker\u2019s Day, the following day, whatever day you want, the day you name and the one you don\u2019t name too, the three hundred and sixty-five days of the year, and the month and a bit before and after elections. \u00a0What are election campaigns all about anyway? \u00a0Handing out liquor to the public to send their brains to sleep. \u00a0Why is there so much corruption? \u00a0Because the politicians steep the public in alcohol, so they can do whatever they want with them. \u00a0Forget it, there\u2019s no remedy, society has been alcoholized. \u00a0Here\u2019s to your health!\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n
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\u00b9 \u00a0 Literally, \u201cThe Bridled Horse\u201d, a popular brand of extremely strong dark rum.<\/span><\/div>\n
\u00b2 \u00a0 Well-known spiritualist rendezvous in Maracay, Venezuela.<\/span><\/div>\n
\u00b3 \u00a0 Mythical spirit figures.<\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00a0 By Lida Prypchan \u00a0 The attraction, union or closeness between individuals is ruled by circumstance but also by identification and antagonism. Affinity, either for a similar concept of life, for a shared ideology, for interests in common. \u00a0Antagonism, such as that observed between the man and woman who achieve perfect unity by complementing one … <\/p>\n

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